How To Achieve Freedom Of Thought

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Happy Monday morning to you welcome back to success best training. Today on the podcast, I want to take a few moments and talk to you about freedom of thought. Each one of us, regardless of what we do, we all are seeking the freedom of thought we want to think we want to experience, we want to be free, and anything and everything that we want to create, or co-create or build or experience, the underlying element of all that is a thought. And that is why it’s important to have positive thoughts and important to foster positive thinking it’s important to appreciate and collectively participate in positive discussions and all that. So everything on this podcast up till now and all my work working with people has to do with positive thinking. And that website, postural positioning.com is a result of all that. So that said, here is how I want to structurally break this concept on how to pursue freedom of thought. Many people talk about this. But then very rarely have seen people implement this. So I want to share with you a formula that I have used across, I don’t know, maybe 300 seminars, at least 2000 people, bare minimum, maybe more. And I’ve shared this with each one of them and everybody appreciated it more or less. There is obviously people who could not connect with this. But then based on my observation, the majority of people connecting with this and appreciating it is the reason why I am here sharing this with you today.

Okay, let’s go into this. What I want you to do, if you are starting right now, then take a paper and write down or draw two squares next to each other. If you are driving and listening or walking and listening to this, I want you to imagine you have two squares on paper. In the first square, I want you to write a story. Just write a story. In the second square, I want you to write glory. Very simple story and glory. You’re listening to this. You cannot write just visualize this. Now, the gap in between is the struggle. So let’s talk about the story. Your story is today. Today, whatever you’re dealing with, the glory is tomorrow. So everything that you’re doing today is to get to that tomorrow. Now glory means not fame, Name, glory could be happiness, glory, could be joy, Glory could be good health. different definitions for different people. The story of today has to create the glory of tomorrow. Tomorrow may not be tomorrow, tomorrow could be a month from today could be a year from today, or maybe 10 years from today. Whatever it is, you’re working towards that. And you want to accelerate that you want to get there very, very quickly. In today’s story, you are unhappy. You’re working hard. You’re dealing with a lot of nonsense. You are fed up with repetitive results, you’re fed up with mediocrity. And you have a lot of friction with everything. The gap between the story and the glory is where the struggle is. The struggle is that you woke up this morning. You had an idea. But everything around you right now in this moment. People’s situations commute, traffic, taxes, credit cards, balances, income bosses, coworkers, everybody is against you. Is against that thought. Each one of them is pulling you in its own direction. And you’re here unable to figure out which way you have to go. So all these things are circumstances.

Everybody is in their own timeline trying to do their own thing. And you are a party to all this. And you are now stretched and you are thin. You have an idea you woke up with you have a desire that you woke up with today, but you don’t know which way to go. So everywhere you are experiencing stress Some agony, some pain, some frustration, and some places are neutral. But overall, it’s an expense. So what you’re doing is you’re sacrificing yourself for all these people, and all these events and all these things, which we now call circumstances. So the gap between the story and the glory is your circumstances that are demanding that you make some sacrifices. Now, if you have enough energy within you, and you have time within you, then you will keep on making sacrifices. When you are out of energy, when you are out of time, then you can’t make sacrifices. The truth is many people keep on sacrificing themselves to a point. They wake up one day, and they realize 30 years, 50 years, and 60 years of my life are over. I don’t have anything left in me. I’ll give you an example. I just met an individual who told me that he worked for 45 years, day in and day out, hoping that one day, he can escape the rat race. And today he feels and he stands for sure defeat. He has no money, or he has some money, obviously. He wants to do something, some business something different. And his circumstances are not allowing him because the sacrifices that he has done in the past did not add up. And he has no money. And he has no time no age. no energy left.

It’s hard. It’s hard. So the question is this? The question is how can you fight your circumstances? Make the sacrifices all we all have to sacrifice? There’s no second thought life itself means pain and suffering. So there is no, there is no shortcut to this. But what if there is a shortcut? I’ll share the shortcut with you. And that’s why you’re listening to this podcast. The shortcut is more strength and more power.

The more you age, the more strength you have. The more you age, the more power you have. What if this individual had infinite power and infinite strength to deal with his circumstances? Currently, the only thing that you lack is the strength and the power to deal with your circumstances. That’s all. And that is why maybe you’re listening to this podcast. That is why maybe you’re reaching out to other experts. Maybe I could be wrong. But I know that for sure. Anytime you ignore some education somewhere, I’ve said this here on this podcast, you overlooked finances. Growing up, you overlooked relationships growing up, maybe you never got a lesson maybe life did teach you. But you didn’t pick it up. I promise you, you are paying a price right now or you will pay a price very soon. In finite infinite price. I can tell you, based on my own experience, things that I ignored and didn’t care about. I am continuing to pay a price. At any time. I banked on my strengths. When I was young, I ignored my weaknesses. Those weaknesses came back to haunt me. Guess what? They also depleted and defeated my strengths. It’s very complex, very deep, but you get the idea. How can you get this infinite strength? How can you get this power? The simple answer is you got to cultivate freedom of thought. The freedom of thought. Your thought has to be free. That’s how you create energy. Energy is created in the mind. In the thoughts not in the gym. Not in the kitchen. Of course, you can do that. But being sarcastic, you get the idea. It’s in the mind. So how can you create this freedom of thought? Many, many months ago, I think many years ago, I shared a formula here. Maybe on my radio show, maybe here, I’m not sure. But I did. In order to have that freedom of thought, you need to do five things.

Five things, you got to have absolute clarity. You should be able to visualize your future. If somebody asks you, What do you want to be 10 years from now, you need to have that answer in you. If you have the answer, the nonsense you’re dealing with right now, it’s not going to bother you. You still have to deal with the nonsense not going to bother you, though. Because you know what exactly you’re going to do 10 years from now, where you will be what we’ll be doing the money, the wealth, the knowledge, the information, whatever, wherever you are going to be in 10 years from now that’s visible to you, then the pain that you’re having now, it’s not going to bother you. Okay. Then the second is, that you got to dial into your feelings. You got to put yourself above everything. yesterday talked about the power of love, self-love, you got to love yourself, when you love yourself, then for sure. You know, your feelings. I know exactly how I feel, at any point in time. Fully dialed into my feelings. I know when I’m feeling low, I know exactly when I’m feeling high.

When I’m not there for others when I’m there. For them. When I’m there, here on this podcast, when I’m not here on the podcast, I know. You can know, sci-fi shows up here with half-baked information, not there mentally, you can hear it I know that been on the radio for 20 years, nearly not 20 years. Now 12 years actively on radio, but in information marketing. In the line of my business, I’m working and speaking to people for over 20 years now, I clearly understand this principle. So you got to really understand the strength of your feeling. Then the third one is your imagination. It’s weak, people can’t see tomorrow, can’t think about tomorrow. That’s why this office today. If for example, I give you this example, I can schedule your next 10 Vacations fully paid. I’ll schedule your vacations, I’ll pay for them. Just not that I’m doing it for them.

And you know the dates when you’re going on vacation? What is your today going to be like? You will start always looking forward to those vacations assuming that you want to take a vacation assuming that you have not taken one. And you need one. And I’m speaking to you let’s say you will look forward to that vacation or those vacations. You will. So why can’t you imagine the outcome? So you are imagining everything. Imagine the best outcome. Imagine the best result for everything that you’re doing. You’re starting your day. Now imagine some good things happening with you imagine.

The fourth one is your sincerity in thanking others. If somebody does something good for you, and I’ve done a podcast on this, somebody is doing something good for you or has done something good for you. Thank them. Thank them. Shameless plug. If you liked this podcast, today’s episode, just drops me a note Srini Thank you. I’m not seeking that for myself. But it does get to you. If you really do that does well for you. Not that I’m looking for, that feedback to bolster my self-esteem. I’m not. But what if you get into the practice of thanking people, your life will change. I talked about Lois Gibson extensively on this podcast. Just tank people. Very simple. And the last one, you got to have completeness in your expressions. Whatever, whatever you’re trying to express, whatever you’re trying to say you got to have completeness. If I’m trying to say something on this podcast, I need to have completeness. Whatever you’re saying whatever you’re doing whatever you’re trying to express completeness. Don’t leave things half-baked. Don’t leave your thoughts half-baked. Your intentions. Sometimes you want to do good but then you mess it up because your intention was not strong. You didn’t express yourself so the other party did not get it. Speak, express. Stand up to who you are. because you’re good. If you’re good, they need to know that you’re good. So luckily, this podcast allows me to tell you that I’m good. Not that you are going technology, I’m good but allows me to, I’m expressing, it does better to me than it does to you. Seriously all this activity does more good for me. The only reason why I do what I do, regardless, of anything that I do is because everything I do does more good to me than it before it really does any good to others.

So a simple connection between this all this. You do because it’s a good thing to do. And if it’s a good thing to do, it does good to you immediately before it does go to somebody else. With these five things, then you have freedom of thought and your thoughts are so powerful that people gravitate your thinking towards your thinking. It’s powerful when that happens. And you have this incredible thing going for you where all your circumstances, all this looks small. You know, you might have heard this, you are bigger than your circumstances. So true. Whoever said that is so true. You are bigger than whatever is there around you. Whoever said that was incredible. So true. So I want you to believe that whatever is inside of you is bigger than everything that’s happening around you. You don’t subscribe to that thought now. Then listen, to books, self-improvement trainings, programs, coaching, seminars, workshops, mentoring, podcasts like this, nothing works. I promise you nothing will work. If you don’t subscribe to the thought that you are bigger than your circumstances. I’ll leave you to hear that because this podcast has gone too far. May your Monday be the most fruitful day for today’s podcast? Take some action steps right away, and start implementing them. And I wish you a great start to this day for this week. And I will catch up with you at least tomorrow. Stay tuned, bye now.

How To Be Happy In Your Own Skin: 4 Rules for Loving Yourself

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Welcome back, happy Sunday morning to you on the podcast. Today, I’m sharing with you an insight that completely changed my life. Now, every day, I come here, and I share an insight with you hoping that everything that I’m sharing with you, is impacting your life in a positive way, in a bigger way in a meaningful way. That’s what I think I could be wrong. But that’s how I think along those lines, I think today’s insight is also going to be impactful. Well, I know for sure, that it’s going to be impactful because this is something that was given to me, by a mentor of mine, by a coach, my mentor, who I absolutely love and adore. And I’m sharing it with you because I know it’s going to change your life. But the time has come. This podcast is running for over eight months now. And time has come for me to share this with you. During an interaction during a conversation. This mentor of mine told me, you know, all the strategies, all the ideas, concepts, everything works, Srini. But at the very core of everything is love. Love is the only thing that either makes everything work or lack of love, makes everything fail. And I was like, Wow, very insightful. I never thought it that way. But it’s a very different spin on it said okay.

Now I was listening to it. And I said, How do you expand this? Because if you just say that love is everything. Sometimes, you know, we are so busy, we have so many things going on in our lives, we are so occupied. Again, we have so much going on within ourselves, anger, hate frustration, and so many things that are done to us. And somehow we can’t comprehend it. Most people cannot. And I was inquisitive. And I heard that and I said I want you to expand on it. And this mentor of mine said you got to do four things. That said first and foremost is you got to love the person that is inside of you. Wow. Most people do not know how to love that person inside of them. Then you got to love your sexuality. Okay, then you got to love yourself more than your mother does, or dead. And then you got to love your spirit. That’s all the mentor said, stopped. And as I was preparing for today’s podcast, I said I want to give my spin on these four things. I will expand this for you. My mentor did not expand this for me years and years ago. But I’m expanding this for you to be on the podcast because I have to. And not only that but again, my understanding of my journeys all over these years, I collected many memories, many experiences, many failures, many successes also but and putting everything together I thought of expanding this so that I can make this I present this in a way that is you know that you can listen and you can understand.

So let’s expand each one of them. Little person inside of you, who is dead inside of you, and how to love but it’s simple. But it’s simple. You got to love your passions, what our passions you have you to love them. Whatever skills you have, you got to love them. Whatever talents you have, you got to love them. Whatever deficiencies you have, you have to love them. Whatever efficiencies you have, you have to love them. Gotta love how you look. You got to love how you present yourself how you speak to yourself, you got to love all that you have. But here’s the most important thing. If you have nothing in you, still you have to love because of the person inside of you. Right? The difference between that person inside of you and you is that you might be taking on things on yourself and showing up for the world.

That may not be you or that person inside of you is never showing up for the world. And the person inside of you wants to express wants to come out and tell the world this is who I am this is how I feel this is How I should be. But for some reason, that person is not speaking, not saying maybe the person is speaking, but somehow with your loudness. With your voice, you suppress. So bring that little person out. The second one is your sexuality. What is sexuality? Very simple. You gotta love your inclinations. You gotta love your activities. What I mean by that is, that you start to recognize your shame. You got to accept your sexual desires and start thinking, about the biological nature of sex. But when you start loving yourself, then the third one, love yourself more than your mother did? Or does. Nobody on this earth who loves you more than your mother? A friend of mine just told me that Srini, you know, I lost my second mother. My father did two great things. One is that he gave me my first mother. And the second thing is he gave me my second mother. So it’s his father who married two times.

My friend loved both the mother spoiled the moms, and then both the moms loved him. So it’s amazing that that whole thing, amazing, very rare to see that. But every time I see that it’s like, wow, there’s a lesson for me. You got to love yourself more than your mother does. And mom’s love was more and very simple. There’s nothing for me to explain here. But very simple, as the statement says. And the last one is your spirit. Everything that you do, knowingly, or unknowingly, is to enhance your spirit and expand your spirit. So what do you do to expand and enhance your spirit? Very simple, five things you got to do? Again, these five things are not coming from me. This is what I collected over the years. The flashy, gotta look good. Simple, you got to look good. Whatever you think looking means it’s for you to define. But you got to look good. Okay. And looking good means you’re presenting yourself well, right? Visually presenting yourself well. Second, you got to think good. You got to feel good.

You got to speak well. And you got to do good. That’s what is called enhancing the spirit expanding the spirit. I took those four that my mentor gave me and expanded those folds like this over the years. I’m not saying this is the absolute answer. This is the absolute I’m going to stop here. No, I’ll keep on expanding this thing will change as I go along. But you get the idea now. So the purpose of today’s podcast is not only to share this insight with you, but I want you to give a priority or a dominant position in your mind to this insight. Start loving yourself. And every strategy, every technique, every idea everything that anybody is saying including me it’s going to come is going to come to solve any problem you have. If not, nothing works. You can’t make other people love you. You don’t love yourself. You don’t take yourself seriously, nobody’s gonna take you seriously.

I’ll tell you the world is such a cruel place for lack of better words. People are willing to turn you into a doormat and I’ll step on you the stuff on your emotions, your feelings, you know, your opportunities, your thinking your ideas, they’ll step on you. You love them, they will turn you into a doormat. But you could the idea. You got to take yourself seriously in whatever you do.

Okay, that’s all for now. You have a wonderful Sunday, and I will catch up with you as early as Manyana stay tuned. Bye now.

To Attain Knowledge, Add Things Everyday??

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“To attain knowledge, add things every day to attain wisdom, remove things every day.” That’s not me who said it? I’m just saying it here on this podcast. That was from Laozi.

Welcome back. Happy Saturday morning to you on the podcast. Today, I’m expanding the answer that I gave yesterday to a question that I got from a listener of my radio show asking me between choosing their existing job, or starting a new business, I kind of went into my experiences. And I dug myself when I shared what I think I would do, and what I experienced all along as an employee, and also as a business owner, and all that. So I’ve gone through the conflict, I kind of shared some thoughts. If you have not yet heard that podcast, please go back. That was yesterday. Please listen to that. And today, today’s podcast is going to make sense. Okay, that being said, yesterday, I highlighted three things you got to learn, you got to do more. And you got to do less, three things. Learn. Let’s talk about that for a second. I want to focus on the word learn. And I’m gonna expand that. I have been notoriously saying on this podcast, that there is nothing new to learn. Everything is unlearning.

So it’s about your beliefs and your values. Most of your beliefs, you have been conditioned to believe certain things in a certain way, you will have been experiencing that for a long time because of the environment in which you are in and the people with whom you interact. So you started to take that as the truth. And as you start to grow, and just started to experience the world. And as you’re growing, you are starting to see that those beliefs are not true anymore. So majority of learning is unlearning. That doesn’t mean that you are not supposed to learn, you are supposed to learn. So you are supposed to bring in information. And that information will be processed differently now within you. Because of the way you are expanding yourself. So your mind is expanding. So if you’re listening to this podcast, or any other podcast, or any other source from where you are seeking information, that means you are expanding. And so the information that you that is coming your way, hopefully, is turning into knowledge.

Now, the only way to turn information into knowledge. It should only be one thing that’s a little oxymoron, right there. The only way to turn information into knowledge is by doing one thing, the only thing, okay, anyway, so I’m going to get better at this. But you get the idea. There’s only one way to do this, which is you got to practice, practice, whatever you are learning, if you don’t practice, the chances are you are passive. The chances are you just listen and you forget. So anything, everything that I’m saying, or anybody else is saying, If you do not practice, then you don’t modify your identity, you don’t modify your, your thinking, you listen, and you and you have the high at the moment, and it’s gonna go away. Yes, some of that information may translate into knowledge. Me, but that’s not what we are seeking here. We are seeking that information that you are bringing into yourself, not only raises your knowledge but also makes you active. Also creating momentum also creates velocity for you or pace for you. Something like that. So if you’re not experiencing it at a level, holistically at every part of your existence, then yeah, there is some value. Somebody asked me, you know, power and support castes, you know, which one should we listen to? Does somebody speak in a certain way you speak in a certain way? Yeah. Yeah. You know, inherently nothing has value. You heard me say this, inherently. Nothing has value. It’s all that you attach. It’s all about how you happen to something. Nothing happens. So humans are not around the Earth is still there. Very simple. We came in when we said oh, this is a river. Oh, that’s a mountain. Oh, this is a tree we started attaching value to. Nature was happening anyway, doesn’t matter.

As simple as that. Or maybe it’s not that simple. You get the idea. Learning. Learning also means that you are developing your ability T to do something more predictably. Right? But learning is to develop learning means that you are bringing information but practice means that you are making it predictable. So learning is not predictable. Let me correct myself learning is not predictable. You learn something today, you don’t forget tomorrow. So if you wake me up in the middle of the night, and you say, Srini, how do you record the podcast? I better tell you how to record a podcast. Because I do it every day. It’s daily, it’s practice. You tell me how to put an intro how to put an outro I know it. Do you tell me how the podcast is rendered? How it’s uploaded? Oh, yeah, I know it. Well, can I learn Intel? You? Yes. Can I read about it Intel? You? Yes. But I practice it every day. And I proof the sun. I’m doing this every day for the last eight months, soon to be nine months. So I should be knowing this. This. This is a part of me. It’s part of my being. It’s me it’s a part of Mike’s experience. Now, what’s the difference between learning and practicing a little bit more learning means you don’t have any first-hand information. You probably have some inclination, some idea. Hence you explore and you study, you bring it, into your existence. But it doesn’t stay with you. It’s gonna go away. I promise you, if I stop doing this podcast, for about maybe two or three days, it’s gonna go away. I recently started experiencing something or experimenting with something which is practicing not drinking coffee. Just started three like a week ago. It’s a practice for me. It’s not a quitting coffee or none. Or justifying to the world that listens, I quit coffee, I took out caffeine from my system. I have not taken out caffeine from my system, I have quit drinking coffee. Just a baby step. It’s a practice for me. I do that for a month for two months or three months. I do not know. That’s it. That’s it. I’m not saying it’s a virtue. I’m not saying you need to acknowledge something that I’m doing none, zero. But it’s just positioning yourself for success. That’s how I see it.

So I’m quitting something positioning myself for success. I’m starting something positioning myself for success. See that? I’m hoping they’re catching that mindset. So it opens up, and you bring in a new skill or new learning. And your job is to become knowledgeable, great. But then you have to turn that knowledge into wisdom. Knowledge is not enough. You got to turn that into wisdom. And it only becomes wisdom. If you practice daily and practice the only way to turn that into wisdom. So if do I have wisdom on how to produce this podcast? The answer is yes. I am absolutely number one on how to do it my way. Am I better than somebody else now, if somebody else is who is doing it for the last three months, and they do it differently, they use a different podcasting platform? They record differently, they produce differently, they render differently, that is their way. I’m not saying, my way is better than their way. But my way is predictable. I have become very predictable. And I can do it in the middle of the night. Wake me up. There is something about practicing something daily. Eventually, it starts to look like a gift. You are a realtor, you are a chiropractor. You are a mortgage broker, you are an insurance agent. You are something and you do that every day. Every day, relentless, do it, practice it. Then for outsiders, you look like you have the gift. Truth. You don’t have a gift. Truth You created the gift, truth. You paid the price with sweat, blood tears, over and over and over again every day, multiple times for long durations at a time and others refused to do it. That’s the difference. That’s the difference. Somebody said she knew you did not you don’t have a startup you didn’t build million Malta you’re not a Facebook or Google. You don’t need to. You don’t need to.

That’s like the exception. You need to start a business to become like Facebook or Google Amazon apple. Now. You start a business because you want the flexibility the autonomy, the freedom, the anonymity at the money through exploration of growth, that’s why you do what you do. Can be done in a job that can be business But everything involves learning. Everything involves that you practice daily. I promise you, you don’t practice daily. Whatever you have in you, it’s gonna go away. Sorry, but that’s the truth. I don’t know how many people like taught hypnosis, like 1000s of people, very few practices go away, goes away. Okay, this is where I stopped. And that’s the only message I had. Hopefully, this is helpful. Hopefully, the only validation to this is tomorrow is starting today, depending upon when you’re listening to this. Either stop something and practice or you start something and practice and you let me know in a month’s time how your life is gonna change or has changed. In a month’s time, do it daily, do it hourly, depending on what you do it hourly, do it daily. whatever frequency you set, practice. Practice is the key to success. Somebody said Srini it’s just not about practice. It’s the right practice. That creates success. True. You can bend the statement in any which way you want to. But the key is the practice here. Right practice wrong practice. Who knows? that’s up for debate. Practice.

Okay, that’s all wherever you are, be safe. And I’ll talk to you as early as tomorrow. Stay tuned.