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Welcome back, happy Sunday morning to you on the podcast. Today, I’m sharing with you an insight that completely changed my life. Now, every day, I come here, and I share an insight with you hoping that everything that I’m sharing with you, is impacting your life in a positive way, in a bigger way in a meaningful way. That’s what I think I could be wrong. But that’s how I think along those lines, I think today’s insight is also going to be impactful. Well, I know for sure, that it’s going to be impactful because this is something that was given to me, by a mentor of mine, by a coach, my mentor, who I absolutely love and adore. And I’m sharing it with you because I know it’s going to change your life. But the time has come. This podcast is running for over eight months now. And time has come for me to share this with you. During an interaction during a conversation. This mentor of mine told me, you know, all the strategies, all the ideas, concepts, everything works, Srini. But at the very core of everything is love. Love is the only thing that either makes everything work or lack of love, makes everything fail. And I was like, Wow, very insightful. I never thought it that way. But it’s a very different spin on it said okay.
Now I was listening to it. And I said, How do you expand this? Because if you just say that love is everything. Sometimes, you know, we are so busy, we have so many things going on in our lives, we are so occupied. Again, we have so much going on within ourselves, anger, hate frustration, and so many things that are done to us. And somehow we can’t comprehend it. Most people cannot. And I was inquisitive. And I heard that and I said I want you to expand on it. And this mentor of mine said you got to do four things. That said first and foremost is you got to love the person that is inside of you. Wow. Most people do not know how to love that person inside of them. Then you got to love your sexuality. Okay, then you got to love yourself more than your mother does, or dead. And then you got to love your spirit. That’s all the mentor said, stopped. And as I was preparing for today’s podcast, I said I want to give my spin on these four things. I will expand this for you. My mentor did not expand this for me years and years ago. But I’m expanding this for you to be on the podcast because I have to. And not only that but again, my understanding of my journeys all over these years, I collected many memories, many experiences, many failures, many successes also but and putting everything together I thought of expanding this so that I can make this I present this in a way that is you know that you can listen and you can understand.
So let’s expand each one of them. Little person inside of you, who is dead inside of you, and how to love but it’s simple. But it’s simple. You got to love your passions, what our passions you have you to love them. Whatever skills you have, you got to love them. Whatever talents you have, you got to love them. Whatever deficiencies you have, you have to love them. Whatever efficiencies you have, you have to love them. Gotta love how you look. You got to love how you present yourself how you speak to yourself, you got to love all that you have. But here’s the most important thing. If you have nothing in you, still you have to love because of the person inside of you. Right? The difference between that person inside of you and you is that you might be taking on things on yourself and showing up for the world.
That may not be you or that person inside of you is never showing up for the world. And the person inside of you wants to express wants to come out and tell the world this is who I am this is how I feel this is How I should be. But for some reason, that person is not speaking, not saying maybe the person is speaking, but somehow with your loudness. With your voice, you suppress. So bring that little person out. The second one is your sexuality. What is sexuality? Very simple. You gotta love your inclinations. You gotta love your activities. What I mean by that is, that you start to recognize your shame. You got to accept your sexual desires and start thinking, about the biological nature of sex. But when you start loving yourself, then the third one, love yourself more than your mother did? Or does. Nobody on this earth who loves you more than your mother? A friend of mine just told me that Srini, you know, I lost my second mother. My father did two great things. One is that he gave me my first mother. And the second thing is he gave me my second mother. So it’s his father who married two times.
My friend loved both the mother spoiled the moms, and then both the moms loved him. So it’s amazing that that whole thing, amazing, very rare to see that. But every time I see that it’s like, wow, there’s a lesson for me. You got to love yourself more than your mother does. And mom’s love was more and very simple. There’s nothing for me to explain here. But very simple, as the statement says. And the last one is your spirit. Everything that you do, knowingly, or unknowingly, is to enhance your spirit and expand your spirit. So what do you do to expand and enhance your spirit? Very simple, five things you got to do? Again, these five things are not coming from me. This is what I collected over the years. The flashy, gotta look good. Simple, you got to look good. Whatever you think looking means it’s for you to define. But you got to look good. Okay. And looking good means you’re presenting yourself well, right? Visually presenting yourself well. Second, you got to think good. You got to feel good.
You got to speak well. And you got to do good. That’s what is called enhancing the spirit expanding the spirit. I took those four that my mentor gave me and expanded those folds like this over the years. I’m not saying this is the absolute answer. This is the absolute I’m going to stop here. No, I’ll keep on expanding this thing will change as I go along. But you get the idea now. So the purpose of today’s podcast is not only to share this insight with you, but I want you to give a priority or a dominant position in your mind to this insight. Start loving yourself. And every strategy, every technique, every idea everything that anybody is saying including me it’s going to come is going to come to solve any problem you have. If not, nothing works. You can’t make other people love you. You don’t love yourself. You don’t take yourself seriously, nobody’s gonna take you seriously.
I’ll tell you the world is such a cruel place for lack of better words. People are willing to turn you into a doormat and I’ll step on you the stuff on your emotions, your feelings, you know, your opportunities, your thinking your ideas, they’ll step on you. You love them, they will turn you into a doormat. But you could the idea. You got to take yourself seriously in whatever you do.
Okay, that’s all for now. You have a wonderful Sunday, and I will catch up with you as early as Manyana stay tuned. Bye now.